What are you, still believe in tooth fairy? That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Nothing can be THAT perfect!
How do I explain the phenomenon of liking someone right at first meeting? The difference between love and true love? After doing a little research, I offer my humble opinion on the cosmic mystery.
Originally, there're many groups of souls get descended to many realms from a mystified source in order to mature. One group usually has anywhere from around 20 to 125 souls. They are sent through many realms: celestial, vegetation, animal, human, etc....After each stage of maturation, the group is subdivided until one soul is slpit in two. These two souls derived from the original one soul is called Twinflames. The souls in the same original group are called Soulmates. Hence, everybody has one twinflame and many soulmates.
Contrary to popular belief, twinflame isn't your perfect romantic partner. That person is your identical soul. Your soul isn't perfect on its own (thus the need of maturation) and it's split to be able to experience more that if staying one soul, the task can't be completed. That being said, your twinflame isn't your ideal romantic life partner. Can you imagine living with someone identical to you? However, usually, twinflames are very rare to be born at the same time (much rarer than soulmates). When they are, the soul almost reach its full potential of maturation. Twinflame will meet and help each other to complete any unfinished business. Twinflame is your best friend who believes you without a doubt, no matter nobody else believes a word from your mouth. It's a sense of complete trust and understanding. Pure love without the romantic feeling or passion. It doesn't take lots of work to maintain this relationship. Twinflames understand each other's soul and mind.
Soulmates.....nice to know we have many. That's where second chance comes from. People can have more than one true love in a lifetime. Soulmates are people that you like right at the first minute meeting them. There's always a connection as if you know and understand each other before meeting. They can be your family, your friends, your lovers, your romantic partners, etc. We're not doomed if our love of life ends (perhaps due to circumstances), we still have many chances to meet others. That being said, it's NOT easy to find soulmate. The world has six billion of people and the original group only has around 125, that's not a very high odds. I guess that's where your luck and destiny play a big role. But don't be sad, love is amazing on its own. Interactions with souls from other groups make things interesting and that's how you learn to grow. Love with a soulmate is amazing but it's not free of work. Every relationship has works and huddles to jump through. Soulmates understand each other, they complement each other. Thus, the work is easier and the chemistry is strong. But they're not your identical soul, they can't read your mind. So, even if they're your soulmates, lack of communication can kill the relationship.
So, in general, if you're someone that stucks unhappily with a person, maybe that person isn't even your soulmate. Even if the love of your life doesn't work out, you still have more soulmates and some maybe even more compatible with you. Think about how we're closer with some members in the family; it's the same in the group of souls. There're some souls we're closer than others, despite the fact we're all soulmates. One more thing is to forget the notion of an easy happy relationship. If you're waiting to meet your soulmate and expect a perfect relationship, it'll never happen. If you never know sadness, you won't know how precious happiness is.
In general, love is hard to find and true love is even harder. But that doesn't mean love isn't worth anything or not important. Love is still precious and very powerful. True love is amazing but it isn't perfect. Don't forfeit love for a delusional perfect notion of true love. True love is a perfectly imperfect love :)